Knowing Jesus is not entirely unlike getting to know any person for after all Jesus is a person. God - yes, but God is in three persons (people). Jesus is the second person of the Trinity. Therefore let us consider how we get to know someone.
Let's say that there is someone that you really want to get to know. How might you go about doing that? Step one - You might get to know about them. If it is a famous person (and Jesus certainly is that) you would go to the authoritative source on that person and read up on them. You might Google them, etc. And this is traditionally (at least for the last 600 years since Gutenberg started printing Bibles) the way that people have approached knowing God. With the reformation and the advent of the scriptures being more readily available in common languages, those wishing to know God in Christ have taken a studious approach to discipleship. Bible study and listening to sermons becomes the main means through which Jesus is known.
There is no doubt that knowing about God as revealed through scripture is not only important, but is essential for anyone who would seek to follow Christ. But if that is where our discipleship ends, we know Jesus about as much as we know John Adams by reading his biography. As a matter of fact, when study of scripture is the only means of knowing Jesus, it can actually be destructive to our maturing into Christlikeness.
When we read scripture, it creates deep inside of us a desire to be the people that Jesus is calling us to be. He calls us to be humble (poor in spirit), broken (mourn), meek, hungry for justice, generous, charitable, unselfish, etc. We really desire to be those things but we find ourselves unable to change ourselves and oftentimes frustration sets in. This has a terrible affect on us and on our churches. Because we have this desire to answer the call of God but do not have the power to stay the course, we find ourself white knuckling it. We serve and grumble, we witness when its convenient and won't make us look stupid. This is why churches have such a hard time sustaining service and witness. It's because even though we want to do these things, we have not become the kind of people who do these kinds of things. So we trudge through our lives doing self-powered ministry which eventually leads to burn out.
To make matters worse, religious professions like me design programs that would allow people to serve and share God's good news but ultimately these programs have a tendency to bare limited fruit over the long haul. The other potentially toxic thing that comes with knowledge without power is that we tend to think that we are the only ones that are struggling with this. It gets especially bad when we run into people who really seem to have a loving, moment-by-moment relationship with Christ. They serve without getting tired of it. In fact they seem to be energized by it. The don't witness, they are a witness. When we encounter people like that or when we look around at church and see all of these people who seem to have their act together, do we go up to those people and ask, "How do I get what you have?" Not usually. Usually we pretend that we have it all together. This is why we have that reputation in evangelicalism as hypocrites. When you get churches full of people who are putting on a show for one another, it hard to imagine that any real transformation occurs.
Wouldn't it be wonderful if all just admitted that we didn't have it together and that the real reason we were in church was because we are all broken and need Jesus? That's what it means to be poor in spirit.
So what's missing. How do we find the power to become the kind of people that scripture has caused us to desire to be?
Before we get to that...
Let's talk about another way that you could get to know someone. Step Two - Hang around with other folks who desire to know the person. In church, we call this community. In the world we see things like fan clubs. people getting together to talk about the person that they admire. It really gets exciting when people in a fan club get to meet with someone who has actually had an encounter with the celebrity. Fans ask, "What is he/she really like?" Perhaps that is what small groups are best at. They put together people seeking and people who are daily encountering Jesus. This provides wonderful opportunities for those who are seeking to ask, "What is Jesus really like?", and to get an answer from a real live person who knows them.
But how do we get from being in Jesus' fan club (knowing about him and meeting in groups with people who want to know him) to actually being Jesus' friend?
Step Three - You actually need to spend time with Him relationally. Not just reading about Him. Not just hanging around with His people. But actually getting to know Him personally. Your mother was right if she said like mine did, "Watch who you hang around with because you will become like them." There is no substitute for spending large amounts of time with Jesus if you truly want to know Him. If you do, you will be changed by it. Like any time you spend large amounts of time with a person, over time you begin to like what they like and hate what they hate. I have been married to Lori for going on 29 years. Now I actually enjoy going to the Home and Garden show because she loves it. I love all kinds of things that she loves because she has affected me over time. The same is true if you spend a great deal of time with Jesus. Now this is a strange and mystical thing for some folks and I suppose it is for me too but mystical and mystery are not necessarily the same things. All those born-againers were right when they said Christianity is not a religion, it's a relationship. Next time I will share some thoughts about how to have a relationship with Jesus. You already know how...
For Jesus' sake,
peter